Why Jewish bereavement counselling?

JBCS has been supporting the Jewish Community for over 40 years and we are committed to ensuring a professional, skilled and comprehensive service.

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Most people need support following a bereavement and often family, friends and the community can meet this need. However, there are times when it may be useful to talk in confidence to a counsellor who has training in the issues of grief and loss. We understand the specific issues raised by bereavement within a Jewish Context.

The death of someone can affect you profoundly and be overwhelming in many ways. Perhaps you may experience some, all or none of the below. Or perhaps you are experiencing something else. Your bereavement is unique to you.

During bereavement one may feel a range of emotions such as:

  • ANGER
  • SADNESS
  • GUILT
  • HELPLESSNESS
  • ANXIETY
  • LONELINESS
  • EXHAUSTION
  • SHOCK & CONFUSION
  • NUMBNESS
  • RELIEF
  • DISBELIEF
  • NOT KNOWING WHAT TO FEEL

It may be helpful to talk to someone who is not emotionally involved but is there to listen and care. The pain of grief may be eased through counselling:

  • Talking may bring relief, and in counselling, you may better understand your feelings and reactions;
  • You might look at problems in different ways;
  • Counselling can help you adjust to a new life situation and identify additional available support.
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There is no right or wrong time to seek counselling. It is never too early or too late.

“Counselling helped me understand what happens and what is normal when grieving, specifically after the loss of a child. I felt supported re all the pain I was going through”

“Yes, it really helped to have someone listen to me, not judging or criticising – knowing that I could speak in confidence…I was told that I could always phone again if things got bad and I needed help, I didn’t feel like I was being abandoned”

“I am most grateful to JBCS for providing this wonderful service. I did not want to speak to anyone about the death of my husband and it took me many years to decide to try counselling. I am so glad I did”